Who Is Sneaking Up On You?
Published: Tue, 05/12/15
past Sunday.
Jill always played bigger than her age, so a
lot of the occasions of her life didn't hit me
all that hard.
First prom? no big deal.
High school graduation? No big deal.
College graduation… That got me.
It's not because she changed so drastically.
The changes were gradual, little bit by little bit.
It wasn't her sitting down with a glass of wine,
or even for telling us how she was looking
forward to getting back to her place and having
a glass of wine or two to mellow out.
It was other things: how she talked with her
grandparents how she conducts herself around
strangers. How she makes the thousands of little
decisions each day that decide who and what we are.
Yep, she snuck up on me.
My little girl is all grown up
So my question of the day ...
Who is sneaking up on you?
And even better: who would you like to sneak up on?
The people in your life see you a certain way.
Family friends, online acquaintances, your list,
if you are a marketer. They all expect certain things.
If you've been flaky, that's what they expect.
If you've been a reliable source of help, that's
what they expect.
And from personal experience, there's nothing
better than confounding someone's expectations
of you.
Someone thinks you don't have money,
then you pick up the check at a very nice dinner.
Or someone expects you to be late with your bills
again, only to find you're three days early.
Or a really nice piece of jewelry or airplane
tickets show up unexpectedly.
Or you show up at a quarterly meeting 40 pounds
lighter than the last time in with a definite spring
in your step.
For some of us, it really is that we want to sneak
up on the other person. To give them an
"I told you so!"
But for most of us it's the sense of well-being,
abundance, security and pride in ourselves that
drives us.
And if you're still trying to do it to show the
other guy, you're going to need to transition to
a healthier place in order to truly get what
you want…and keep it.
Much Love,
Larry
This is what allows you to let it all in.
HOW TO RECEIVE gives you the consciousness
and the skills to let things into your life.
It also helps you make peace with the people
in your life...the challenging ones and the easy
ones. So "sneaking up on people" becomes more fun!
This is what allows you to let your body be your
friend on the journey, not your enemy.
The T3 METHOD helps you move away from
needing anyone's approval for your body. No
worrying about friends, family, society.
So when you do it for YOU...when you lose
weight, drop sizes, get more energy...you really
are sneaking up on people. Because you're too
busy having fun to think about them.