Judgment
Published: Sat, 12/19/15
Wanna make people question your
relationships, or your commitment to them?
Wanna make it so people trust you on a
superficial level, but won't let you in to
the important parts of their lives?
Practice judgment.
Wanna be strong?
Wanna be a leader?
Want to make lots of money in a way
you can be proud of, and in a way you
can show the right people to do as well?
Want happiness and fulfillment in the
important parts of your life?
Practice discernment.
There is a huge difference between the two.
Judgment is self righteousness, defensiveness,
needing to make yourself bigger by making
others smaller.
It leaves no room for growth or compassion.
Discernment lets you decide where you stand
on an incident, and those involved. It lets you
make choices about what you permit, where you
stand and who you allow into your life.
It also lets you grow, gives perspective and
lets you be there for others who need you
because you aren't wrapped up in your own
need to be right.
Yes, this is a time in my life when I am reaching
to find the difference between them.
Most moments are.
Learn from everything that happens to you.
Be good to the people who need someone
to be good to them.
Remove yourself from people and situations
when it's time to go.
And hold off on the temptation to judge.
That's not your job.
Watch the flood of good thing that happen.
Much Love,
Larry