Your Life

Published: Thu, 11/17/16

People will tell you what's good and bad,
right and wrong about how you are living
your life.

Then they'll go away and live their own.


That's my current Facebook status.

No one gets to decide for you what's right
or wrong.

They do get to decide what they're willing 
to accept into their own experience...if who
you are or what you do is too far out of alignment
with what's important to them.

But to make a blanket statement about morality
or propriety...

It's the old "let those among you without sin cast
the first stone" thing.

That's the moral/ethical part of the equation.
Personally, I do my best not to judge, not having
walked a mile in someone else's shoes to understand
the choices they make.

But there are other parts, too.

Your finances.

Your career choices.

Your physical health and well being.

Your relationships.

Your spirituality.

I see an awful lot of people slap a label on those 
around them. It serves their needs, and their egos.

"I am a home business owner. I look down at those
with a J.O.B."

"I am a proud member of the working class. I don't
need those sales types. I roll up my sleeves and get
my hands dirty for a living."

Bullshit.

Doing anything to put yourself above another is
not only arrogant and defensive, it also makes
no economic sense.

That laptop or phone you're reading these words on?

Made by someone with a JOB.

The words you're reading?

You learned to read by someone who studied how to
educate kids.

And the school your kids went to was built by people
who learned their craft, and kept them safe and warm
for all those years.

So did the lunch ladies who fed them.

You are perfectly imperfect.

Lose the arrogance of thinking one side is better
than the other.

Be humble enough to accept your own faults. 

Be ambitious enough to get to work on fixing them.

Apologize to those you hurt.

Forgive those who hurt you as soon as possible.

See a little more for yourself than the reality you're
currently living.

Then if that means starting a home business,
or getting better skills at the one you have now,
go for it.

If it means not trying to fit into a mold someone put
you in to serve their own intersts, let yourself out
of the box.

If it means being nicer to yourself or someone else,
soften your heart.

If it means making a life changing choice, summon
the courage.

I don't know everything, and Lord knows I am also
perfectly imperfect.

But my gift has been to see the best in people even
when it's far from what they've been living.

And helping them to actually start living it.

MIND FLIP is coming.

For home business people who want to get better
at what they do.

And for parents who want to get better at what they do.

And for people looking to take better care of their
bodies, and the spirit inside of them.

Hit reply to get more info.

Or email LarryHochman@SBCGlobal.net

On Your Side,
Larry


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