What I really should have called HOW TO RECEIVE.

No, not really.  In the first place,

I rarely swear.

In the second place, it's only a small part of the

way to get more good stuff in your life.

But it is a part of it.

It's what holds people back from taking risks.

It's what holds people back from facing their

fears and smashing through them.

Because for many of us, our biggest fear is

the disapproval of other people.

It's why the Number One fear out there is public speaking...

We don't want to be laughed at.

I get it.  I don't enjoy being laughed at either.

Then again, I really don't worry about it.

I am secure in my own skin...

and in my own sense of worthiness.

It's what allows me to take risks.

It's what allows me to get in people's faces

and say what they need to hear.

It's what lets me give them the tough but

unconditional love they really need.

It's what lets me tell them to give me their money

Check out this video for an example. 

 

The guy holding the camera was maybe the

worst waiter I ever had at a restaurant.

I had the cajones to say it about him while

he was videotaping me say it.

Not bad for a guy who grew up desperately

wanting to be liked...and willing to sell his

soul to make it happen.

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So short version...

The way not to give a *#%! about what other

people think of you is to feel REALLY good about yourself.

And having that high self esteem is a great start.

And having the good stuff in life - the love, the money,

the hot bod and laughing face - is an expression of that

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