Dear

"I can't help it. Well, that's just the way I am."

The excuse I hear most often for someone not doing what

they're capable of.

Well excuse me, but...Bull***t.

The way you were when you were brought into this world was

naked, cold, helpless, dependent on others for everything.

Then you grew, and developed and learned.

You fell on your ass but you got up. You healed from your

boo boo's and got wiser and stronger from the experience.

So to say to me or anyone else that you "can't help it...that's just

the way I am" goes against your entire life experience.

Wanna choose not to do something? I'm cool with that.

But don't expect me to coddle you by accepting "that's just the

***   ***

 

That's what I wrote while I was at the gym on Saturday morning.

 

I just finished a workout and watched a whole bunch of people

who were taking care of their physical being instead of sleeping in.

 

I don't know what these same people  do with other parts of their lives.

Maybe their finances are a mess, or their relationships, or their

spiritual lives.  Not my business.

 

But I do know staying healthy and fit was important enough to

them to get out of bed on Saturday and take care of business.

 

And a bunch more said they were going to do it, but decided 

against it, because, "Well, that's just the way I am."

 

Maybe so. But you still get another day older, another day

less healthy and another day with less confidence.

 

Same for your money, or your love life, or your relationship

with your creator.

 

All excuses lead to the same place.

 

Wanna fix them?

 

HOW TO RECEIVE.

 

If you have any level of desire to feel better, do better BE better....

 

I can help you.

 

If not, I'll be here when you're ready.